November 30.
Along with some other graduates from the thirties to the eighties, I
was recently privileged to enjoy a reunion lunch. The common bond was
the parent-child relationship which has been such an important feature
of student life at St Andrews for many years.
This relationship takes two forms, first the bejant/bejantine to
senior man/woman, now referred to as academic child/father-mother
relationships, and secondly the relationship between the student and
Alma Mater.
In common with all parenting relationships, once started they only
change direction as the children mature. They are lifelong.
It was sad to see how debased had become the forging of these academic
family bonds (November 24). One wonders if this was the adolescents'
last farewell to the excesses of irresponsibility prior to settling down
to studies and the worries of financing themselves during their sojourn
in St Andrews, or whether it was the beginning of a lifestyle which peer
pressure will encourage them to adopt.
Citizens of St Andrews old enough to have witnessed university life in
the post-First World War period recalled the excesses in the behavour of
some of the returned men.
Some of these veterans, whose lives had been changed forever by their
wartime experiences, gave their landladies a hard time. Fortunately the
St Andrews ''bunk-wives'' were made of stern stuff -- kind, firm, but
never lacking in humour and worthy of all the affection and respect
their students accorded them for years after they gave them their
graduation photos.
Sadly, the gap between town and gown is now wider with the demise of
the ''bunks'' and this must put great pressure on the forbearance of the
citizens of St Andrews.
If, however, the present excesses are the result of peer pressure
among the young, one must examine another kind of ''peer pressure''
which has been used by the university in its publishing of names of
members of ''giving clubs'' and of regular exhortations to graduates to
donate to university funds.
In the West of Scotland alone more than 1000 graduates receive this
encouragement. Many respond with donations and covenants and some
eventually with bequests. Some of thse graduates may now be considering
their position on reading ''Students raisin Cain''.
Many of us who have great sympathy with students facing financial
hardship are beginning to ask: How can it be so bad if students can
afford to spend so much on drink that it is worth the while of the St
Andrews licensed traders to tolerate scenes such as are described in
your article?
How do parents of prospective students view St Andrews University
after reading such stories? Are prospective students frightened off by
this?
I can reassure them that there is another side to life at St Andrews.
The student body is also a caring body, keenly aware of much that is
wrong with society and anxious to improve it.
For example, it may surprise readers to know that only two days after
Raisin Monday students were taking on board problems of race relations
and listening intently to the words of a survivor of the Holocaust. In
addition, they work tirelessly for charities, local, national, and
international.
Jean C Carmichael,
4 Fleurs Avenue,
Glasgow.
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